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When I was with the other guy, things were going slow, but now that we're good friends, I can't forget about my feelings for him!

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Question - (5 May 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2006)
A female , *nnie07 writes:

Hi, About a year ago, when i moved to a new school i found myself having a lot in common with this guy in my class called Andy. We didnt no each other very well, but he was the kind who hadnt had a gf and was very shy. He ended up likeing me and we went out for a couple months. The only thing is he was so shy i only got hugs for 2 months! and when we did kiss it was a peck (and unfortunately a dare) :(. We broke up knowing that it was going downhill.6 months later i went out with another great guy called Sam who ive been seeing for 4 months. But ever since i broke up with Andy we have become really good friends and i cant get rid of my feelings for him that are growing every day. what do i do? I love my boyfriend. And i dont want to hurt anyone. should i ignore my feelings. or act on it?.....*confused*

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A female reader, Annie07 +, writes (10 May 2006):

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Annie07 agony auntThanks for your response. I think i might actually do that. I've been thinking about if for a while now, but dont want to ask anyone for advice because then they would know, and it might get around. :)

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A male reader, Spidersleader1 +, writes (7 May 2006):

That is a confusing one, and it is hard to answer but I'll try. The best thing I can tell you is ask yourself which one you love the most, Sam or Andy? If that doesn't seem to help then just do it the hard way: try to forget Andy, stay with Sam and if after a while you decided you want to be with Andy, then try to date him again.

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