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writes:please!!!! someone!!!! help me!!!!My boyfriend didnt call me at all on friday and when he called me saturday he was acting really strange and asked me if i was mad that he didnt call on fri. i said no and said i didnt care(i did)he acted weird all day saturday.he never gave and explaination to why he didnt call fri. he made really rude comments saturday like "is you gon give me some booty today" he had neva really disrespected me this way and i felt like he was just unda the bad influence of his older cousins.Later saturday he called and asked for money.even the way he asked was rude.so finally i was done and sent my lil' cuz to the door sayin that i wuznt there w/a $20bill and a note wrapped inside sayin we should just be friends.he called me and said "it that wut it is.....it that wut it is?" i said yeah and he said iight as if he didnt care. sunday he called about four x's asking wut i was doin and if it wuz really ova.i said yea. monday nite he called but i was sleepin and tuesday he called at nite and ask did i want him back i said no he said "ima holla atcha" 1hr 21mins lata he called back and asked was no my final answer.i said yea. he said ok and hung up. today he didnt call at all and i really love and miss him but pride wont let me callwut do i do and wut do u think is really up w/ him and wut do u think hes feelin'??????
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reader, Midge  +, writes (3 May 2007):
 Any bloke that disrespects you like that, isnt worth the bother. You are honestly better off without the hassle of him disrespecting you in that manner.
No-one can tell what he is feeling other than someone or something has got into him. Perhaps as you say his older cousins have influenced him. But he should never has said that to you, you dont deserve that!
If he has done this once, the chances are that if you call him and say you want him back, or even consider taking him back, he will think you are weak and that it gives him the right to do it again. Dont ever sell yourself short and let someone speak to you like that, even if you love them.
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reader, Midge +, writes (3 May 2007):
Any bloke that disrespects you like that, isnt worth the bother. You are honestly better off without the hassle of him disrespecting you in that manner.
No-one can tell what he is feeling other than someone or something has got into him. Perhaps as you say his older cousins have influenced him. But he should never has said that to you, you dont deserve that!
If he has done this once, the chances are that if you call him and say you want him back, or even consider taking him back, he will think you are weak and that it gives him the right to do it again. Dont ever sell yourself short and let someone speak to you like that, even if you love them.
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