A
female
age
30-35,
*arasu10
writes:ok. i am really confused. my ex, who is also the father of my unborn child, has a gf now. it doesnt bother me, his loss right? anyways, a few days ago we were talking and i told him that he was the best i ever had, sexually of course, and he told me that he felt the same about me. i didnt think much of it, but he continued and said that i was the last girl that he "came" with, and that he doesnt crave sex with this girl, and that he even dreams about me. the conversation continued, and i slipped out "well, why dont you go have sex with your girlfriend", and he replied, "what for? im not gonna "come" anyways." now i dont know about you guys, but i've never ever had a guy tell me anything like that. usually my guy friends give me a general idea, but going in detail like that? never. what was the point of that? what was his reasoning for doing that? i just dont get it. please help!
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): I think he's just trying to make you feel special too. Like like "oh, I'm the only girl he can cum in! Yay me!"
I've heard of men who can't reach orgasm through intercourse, but never that they can with one woman but not with others.
I think as soon as he heard you say he's the best you ever had, a little sign with the words "Free sex!" popped up in his mind.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): this guy just wants some easy action with you. then he will go back to the real person in his life- his gf.
whether he cums or not, should make no difference to you. he is out of your life.
do you see yourself having a pure sexual relationship with him.
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): He's still into you. If he's not "coming" with the other girl, they're either not having sex, or he has some sort of medical issue. It sounds like he's just saying that to try to make you feel special or some such thing. I'm puzzled by your reasons for telling him he was the best you'd ever had. If you want nothing to do with him, don't bring up subjects like that. It will just lead him on. And if you're toying with him, cut it out.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): He could just be somebody who routinely does the TMI thing. Or he's hoping for some break-up sex. I really wouldn't waste too much time pondering it.
...............................
|
