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What To Do with the ex?

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Article - (24 January 2009) 5 Comments - (Newest, 28 January 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, Gorgeous_Baybe writes:

Well I had this really hot boyfriend and then he dumped me so i was single. that night he had a girlfriend they broke up cuz she thought he still liked me.I still loved him So i asked him out he said no.He then asked his Ex back out and she said yes.So i asked his mate out and he said yes but i still love my Ex wot should i do ? x

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A male reader, peace for children of adam India +, writes (28 January 2009):

their you people have problems.one boy playing with many girls,I know their are more girls then men in the world,that doesn't mean you should chase boys,what if your boyfriend comes back than that other girl's heart will be broken.that is why I always say you should respect your self and not to have physical r elision before marriage.why do people want to hunt for sex.when they know they will have it when their time come why not let nature take it own course,why sleep with more than 20 to 30 guys before settling with one.WHY? why not respect your body.

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A female reader, FizzyPop United Kingdom +, writes (27 January 2009):

FizzyPop agony auntDid you only ask his friend out to be near your Ex? and hear about his relationships?

If you have no feeling's for his friend then i suggest you move on.

Your Ex is a EX for a reason

He obviously doesn,t want you back. Being rejected is a horrible feeling. Doesn,t get easier the older you get either.

Find new friend's and a new man in your life.

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A female reader, everyones ex United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2009):

Bit of a messy situation! Dump the ex's friend,try to find some one else to knock around with and relax and enjoy the company of your friends. The more time you spend hanging around with these people,the harder it's gonna be for you to get over him and the longer it's gonna take you to move on.Don't ask someone out just to get one over on someone else-that's never the right reason and you usually end up even more confused or angry. x

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A female reader, Little D United States +, writes (25 January 2009):

That was not a very good move in all aspects. You need to end the relationship. Don't do it just because, cause you don't want to lead em on and there to be hurt feelings and bad vibes from him or your ex. I know it's hard to let go of someone you love, When all you want is to be with them. But if he's dating already then you didn't mean much to him in the first place. And if that's the case he's not worth it. He doesn't deserve your love. Take some time for yourself, give yourself time to heal and have little fun. When your heart has mended you will know where to go from there. But right know you are volunerable and your heart is hurting. Don't go looking for something or someone that you're not gonna be interested in when you have forgotten about what's his name.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009):

Theres nothing you can do. Sad but true. Hes over you (a little TOO soon!) but ye.

You'l find a new love as everyone does after break ups. Its the way the world works, not always the way we want it to but life is its own thing and we cant control it. Thoes that "think" they can are fools.

Dont be a fool.

All the best xx

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