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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I am basically don't know what i am wanting, but i have been seeing a guy for almost a month, i don't even know if we a in a relationship or is just the sex, whenever we see each other, we either just french kiss and then have sex.. I wanted to make him feel i am special and get him to stick with me as in a relationship, please give me suggestion on what i should do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): The thing i am afraid is, what if he said all he wants is to sleep with me and me in the other way having feelings for him.. then I will probably lose this relationship then right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): Sounds like right now you two are "friends with benefits."
If you want to resolve this one way or the other, stop sleeping with him and tell him why when he asks (because he will). If he really cares about you, he'll take steps to keep you around, and that includes asking you to be his gf.
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