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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I've been dateing my boyfriend for about two years now, we were very happy at first and i was extreamly in love with him .... however, things started to change in the past few months. He is acting like he does not need me and he does not give me the attention i should have. he went from always saying nice things to me, always texting and calling to acting like i dont mean much to him anymore could it be that i am doing too much? calling him first texting him first telling him i love him all the time? what should i do to make him realize what he has and make him come chasing after me and running back? showing me he cares and make him wonder? please help this is driving me crazy=(!
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reader, Lulu-Lemons +, writes (17 February 2009):
Have you tried sitting him down and telling him how you feel? I mean, guys aren't mind readers, a lot of them need to be told what they're doing and how it effects others.It could also be that he has something on his mind, like school, work, family drama?No matter what's going on with him, you really need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. You won't get anywhere by just telling him you love him all the time... if anything, depending on what hes going through, it could make him feel suffocated.
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reader, Lulu-Lemons +, writes (17 February 2009):
Have you tried sitting him down and telling him how you feel? I mean, guys aren't mind readers, a lot of them need to be told what they're doing and how it effects others.It could also be that he has something on his mind, like school, work, family drama?No matter what's going on with him, you really need to sit him down and tell him how you feel. You won't get anywhere by just telling him you love him all the time... if anything, depending on what hes going through, it could make him feel suffocated.
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