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What really turns a guy on during sex?

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Question - (17 November 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 20 November 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

What really turns a guy on during sex? i really wanna please my bf anything i can do to him? wear? say? we both enjoy it but i wanna spice things up and surprise him with something that will give him a spark :] help and advice pleasee!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008):

I like when girl start scratching my back and when she scratchs my head and pull my hair

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008):

I like when girl start scratching my back and when she scratchs my head and pulls my hair

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (18 November 2008):

DoubleM agony auntGee, in your age group, the first thing that comes to my mind is very simple: Just show up and get naked. LOL That always worked with me. But I agree with wrap your legs around, licking balls and rocking back with heals over head. You might also try a pre-sex back rub, surprise blow jobs, flashing a "beaver" unexpectedly and, while missionary, also rubbing or lightly scratching his back. Try squirting a little whipped cream on his tip and lick it off. The possibilities are endless - just try lots of things and repeat occasionally.

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A female reader, helpjayne United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2008):

helpjayne agony auntscratching his back or talking dirty can help also most guys i've been with like it when i bite their neck and moan their name. oo and my boyfriend like it when i put my legs over my head its deeper but you have to be a tad flexible.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2008):

yeah i have to agree wrapping your legs around him when he is on top makes a guy hot. it must make them feel like you really want them more and more. also some guys i have been with love it when you give their balls a little tug. also during oral sex pay attention to their balls as well as their penis.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2008):

Well all guys are different. The first thing you should do is talk to him and ask what he likes.

My boyfriend likes pain, for some reason. I have no idea why. It's kinda weird, but I go with it. He absolutely LOVES it when I bite the curve between his shoulder and neck. He gets goose bumps when I do that. He also likes it when I gently tug on the hair at the back of his neck when I orgasm. I wouldn't suggest doing these things out of the blue. Try maybe some gentle nibbles in between his neck and shoulder and guage his reaction? Just try different things and see how he responds.

Ooh you know what works wonders? Wrap your legs around him while he's on top of you and squeeze his legs to guide him. Or randomly shove him over so that you're on top. Hold his hands down and take control. That really gets my boyfriend going. ;)

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