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writes:its ok to let a guy grab my boobs, after 9 dates? i dont want him to think im a slut
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Personally he sounds a little bit immature, I stopped grabbing girls boobs when I was about 15 and learned that it wasn't the way things were done.
It is up to you, as to what you consider appropriate and are comfortable with, that's the most important thing.
There is no set amount of time for anything while dating, it's all down to comfort and consent, if you don't like him doing it then stop him and tell him you don't feel comfortable.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (7 April 2009):
 You're right - it doesn't just depend on how you and him feel (maybe you'd like him to do this) - you need to decide if you really like him, and if he's someone you want to be with, before you start getting more intimate with him.
You've been out nine times, but you don't say how close you are, how you feel about him, how he feels about you. To be honest, I don't think he will think you are a slut, but I think he will always respect you more if you keep things just at kissing for a bit longer.
Basically, only let him go further if you think he's a keeper! If you want to keep him, and if you think he wants to keep you.
I think you should talk to him.
And as far as letting boobs be touched is concerned, just be warned - once you let someone start touching your boobs, all your sensible thoughts will probably go out of the window and you'll end up going further because your body wants to ... if you want to be able to think clearly and make judgements, keep your boobs in your bra for now!! : )
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reader, De rap  +, writes (7 April 2009):
Well i'm a guy & i dn't think that's a rigth thing to do, it show lack of respete for the girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): Perhaps not "grab" ur breasts...They are not a plaything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni dont knowwwww, no one ever have touched my boobs
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