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writes:Met a guy six weeks ago who is 27 (i am 19). He only looks about 22 at oldest. He seems ok. I have only seen him once more since we met. We have spoken on MSN quite a lot (though I have been deliberately appearing offline a lot to let him think I am busy doing other things. We have also exchanged several texts (though that has stopped the lsst couple of weeks).We are both on each other's Friends lists on Facebook. Recently, when I went on MSN, he didn't talk to me. So I didn't start a conversation with him either ( ;-) ). He spoke to me this last Sunday askin if i had gone out the night before. I told him I had. He said he didn't see me but was looking out for me (not sure how much I should believe that?). I sed yea rite as if i didnt believe him. He spoke to me for about fifteen minutes then told me he had to go to sort dinner, went offline, then came back on within five minutes and set the status to out to lunch. Didnt restart a conversation wiv me (y wud he, he jus sed bye already?)Then on Tuesday I set my Facebook profile status to say sumfin slightly cheeky about a football team he supports (though this was not done deliberately to get at him) - I have frienda who support the same team, he just happens to support them too.Two hours later, he has written on my profile to say that his team will get through it, etc, etc. Bein a bit cheeky. I didn't reply. Hour and a half later, he sees that a friend of mine has written on my profile about me spotting a guy friend of ours out Sat nite and she said about how she was surprised I recognised him because of how drunk I was. (I had told this guy I met that I had seen his mate Sat nite but not him). Anyway, he wrote on my profile to say 'my name didn't recognise me even tho i didnt spot her either, tho I was wondering if she was in name of club we go to!'. All of my friends can see what he has written on my profile and he knows this. Only one of my friends know who he is, etc...I still have not contacted this guy and have deliberately appeared offline to him on MSNN ever since.What is going on with this guy? Does he really like me? I am not looking to rush into anything with him right now, but I want to know if it is okay for us to just be friends, or if he may be interested in more than that, just not rushing it? He has been cheated on in the past and made a point of tellin me that he hates the exes that cheated on him... :-S He also told me another girl was texting him a while ago but he considers her to be a stalker because he's not interested in her (she was constantly texting him askin where he was etc on a Sat nite). He can't call me a stalker because I have not done any of that and didn't even ask if he was ignoring me when he didnt reply to one of my texts (he spoke to me on MSN a week later after not hearing from me since i sent that text). Anybody help? And am I goin the right way about this if i want to be more than friends? (not askin y he hasnt replied to texts, not startin convos etc)?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): It sounds like he's slightly flirting... Just ride it out for now, be friendly when he contacts you. It wouldn't hurt for you to take the initiative once in while!
But for Pete's sake, pay attention in English grammar class! I know this is the 'net, and therefore less formal, but you've bastardized the English language to an extreme in your post that is comparable to ebonics. :(
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (19 October 2007):
You are acting real manipulative. I hope he sees you through the smoke.
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reader, Somethingeasy +, writes (19 October 2007):
 I think this guy probally does like you but you appear a littleto involved in our other ordeals in life. You ae trying to hard not be a stalker that you are sending the wrong signals.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (19 October 2007):
 dear anon
dump him your relation ship is in pieces as it is going no ware,
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