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writes: What exacty is an orgy?? Help, I feel so stupid for not knowing. Reply to this Question
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reader, Yos  +, writes (13 June 2006):
 Some things about orgies:
- They are events where several people get together and have sex together. Sometimes quite a lot of people.
- They happen privately, but also in special clubs where you have to be a member.
- They are very unusual, almost no one ever gets involved in or has orgies. If people around you are talking about orgies, the chances are they have never been to one, and will never go to one.
- Most people find them very uncomfortable and strange and whilst being maybe excited about the idea, would never go to one.
- Some people go to orgies, and feel fine afterwards. There are not many people who are able to go to an orgy and not feel unncomfortable (or worse) about it afterwards. But some people are fine with it. But this really is a small number of people.
- Quite a few people who get involved in orgies do it for bad reasons. Sometimes people have problems and they find something like an orgy puts their mind off it for a while. But these people often find that the problems are made worse in the long run because of it, not better. This is one of the bad things about orgies: you tend to find a lot of messed up people at them. If you want to meet a 'nice, normal person' then the odds are better going elsewhere.
- Going to an orgy is a sure-fire way to get labelled as a slut (boy or girl). It is generally regarded as immoral behaviour (whether you care about that or not). You will also find that some future boyfriends or girlfriends will not want to be in a relationship with you if they find out you've been in an orgy, so be careful!
- They are a very good way to catch a sexually transmitted disease
- They were popular thousands of years ago with the rich Ancient Romans. These people would also deliberately puke at orgies so they could eat more food, and would then go to the circus to watch innocent people eaten by wild animals as entertainment. People are capable of many strange things...
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (13 June 2006):
 Eyes wide open, it doesnt make someone ignorant if they attend an orgy, not that this is my thing, but lots of people are happy to express themselves sexually at a party. Lots of these people are couples, some are singles all looking for a good time. Just because they attend a sex party for want of a better word, does not make them ignorant, for from it, most of these parties are pretty safe (i did say most) and they practice safe sex, alot more than the odd individual does! In fact alot of these parties you are no allowed to attend or interact with someone unless you use a comdom! Its each to there own!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (12 June 2006):
 There is a big difference between ignorance and stupidity. Now you know what an orgy is, you are no longer ignorant unless you attend one that is.
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reader, camille +, writes (12 June 2006):
 I myself don't partake in such wild abandon, but for xxxsoulsistaxxx to call it "disgusting" is just their own personal opinion not shared by everyone. Each to their own and if that's someone's preference then as long as it's consensual and not harming anyone, what's the problem? To answer the original question, it's a sexual practice that inolves either sharing sexual partners at the same time or a group of people being present whilst engaing in sexual activity. I also looked it up for you, it said :"An orgy is "a wild party, especially one involving excessive drinking and unrestrained sexual activity". Sex can be an embarassing topic, but it isn't something to be embarassed about knowing or not, it's natural and people have different ways of expressing themselves through sex. Hope that helps.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (12 June 2006):
 An orgy is where lot's of people have sex at the same time. This can be men and women and they all basically just do stuff to each other all at the same time, just sharing each others bits and pieces!
Don't be shy for not knowing, it's more embarressing to know what something as disgusting as that is than not to know!
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 June 2006):
 don't worry it took me a while to figure it out lol. an orgy is a group of people having sex at the same time. some people share partners some just like to do it in front of lots of people but i hear it's meant to be fun
all the best xxx
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