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writes: Me and my ex were together for 6 months. She broke up with me last month. She liked me very much and we were inseparable and used to chat on the phone for hours. Suddenly, she started rejecting and ignoring my calls. Then she said we have to break up because were different religions and it won’t work out in the long run. It is very hard for me, but she said we could still be friends and meet. Now she keeps ignoring and rejecting my calls, lying to me of her whereabouts and can never find time to meet, coz she’s always 'busy', whereas when she was really busy, she would always make time for me. I don’t understand her. She went from a sweet girl to a mean girl with attitude. I don’t understand what’s happened and I’m so depressed every day.I didn’t do anything to hurt her but every time she is mean to me and ignoring my calls it hurts me so much. I don’t want to lose contact with her because she is the best thing that ever happened to me. Could you please advise me?
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reader, honey_08 +, writes (20 May 2006):
 hi, well i know she have another reason why she decided to broke up with u, maybe she dont want to hurt u thats why she did not tell u the truth, but whatever it is, i think u need to move on, let her realize what she lost, if u dont do anything and suddenly she just woke up one day and she didn't want u anymore, then let her go. if u think u do something to win her back or just to talk to her and still she ignore it, then leave it. time will come, both of u can talk and discuss what really happened... if u really for each other then time will come and u guys will be together in the end. but now u dont need to stuck up your life with her, u need to move on in your life, continue your everyday live's. the only way u will overcome this is to let her go and accept the fact that now, your not with her anymore... if u let her go, u stop hurting yourself bec. everytime u call her and she reject u in the end u still feel hurt. think of yourself also and move on... i know u can handle it. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2006): Look, it doesn't matter anymore. I'm not trying to be discompassionate, but you just have to stop everything. If she wants to do what she wants to do, who are you to change and/or stop her? You're a no one in her life. It doesn't matter if you were once 'inseparable', or loved each other, yaddi yadda. Today, she just wants to forget about everything. WHEN someone of an intimate past says, "Let's be friends, and keep in touch" - the likelihood of that is slim - to my experience from friends and family, etc.
You say you don't want to lose her? Well, I dare you to continue to pester her then, cuz that's just going to annoy her more - most likely, from the looks of it.
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