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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I know guys go off the verbal queues during sex to please the woman but what am I supposed to do to make it pleasurable for him? Laying down and just enjoying it seems to be a tad selfish. Shouldn't I be doing something too? I understand about oral or when I am in the dominate position but what about when he is in the dominate role? Please tell me things I can do. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, peacedreamer +, writes (19 August 2007):
Men are usually so happy to actually be having sex, there isn't a whole lot you have to do but look hot, and even then, that isn't even entirely all that important. Of course you will want to tell him how it feels what he is doing to you. You'll want to touch his back, kiss his lips and neck, some guys even want you to talk dirty to him. i have found that the more fun i am having, or the more into it i am the hotter the guy gets. In fact, I have to downplay it or my guy will come before I do. By the way, he is completely silent during sex, not even a groan. Enjoy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was just curious because I had no clue as to what to do in sexual situations. I don't want to be just lying there when there were things I could be doing...just couldn't figure out what. Thanks for your suggestions!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): Kiss him?
Stroke him?
Caress him?
Lick him maybe?
Just talk to the guy and ask what he wants you to do...
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female
reader, RebeccaT +, writes (18 August 2007):
If the girls leading than shell make it good for her and it just happens to feel good to you.
And if your leading than it will mporob feel good to her anyway dont worry
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): Why don't you ask him? It's hard to say because everyone likes different things during sex.
When I have sex with my boyfriend we usually change positions alot like I'll go on top, then we'll change when we feel like it.
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