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36-40,
anonymous
writes:This man who is much older than me said that he would go after me if he was younger, and he said he has lots of girlfriends ( not sure if that was a joke or not ) but he said i am his favourite girl and always will be. We aren't dating. What does he mean by saying i am his favourite girl ?. He was watching me when i was dancing with one of my friends in bar too when we were out last weekend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2012): Now that is a big age difference! Think VERY carefully before you pursue this. What do you have in common? What would you talk about? Any kind of longterm relationship would mean you bearing the biggest burden - he won't have the energy you do for many things, and that includes children. Wow! I'm getting very serious and mapping out your entire future! All I would say is this much of an age difference and I am (sorry to say it) inclined to think he is being a bit of a lecherous old man.
I would stop acknowledging his attentions and put a bit of distance between him and you - but that is just my opinion.
Only you know what you want to do ... proceed with caution.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): He's 60 and i'm nearly 28.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2012): "SoVeryConfused" is absolutely right. He is telling you that he is attracted to you, but he is openly and honestly, acknowledging the age difference.
Just how old is he? Are we talking 30s, 40s, 50s, older?!
If his attention makes you feel uncomfortable tell him so (gently and politely). If you are attracted to him let him know (gently and politely!)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (28 March 2012):
 It means he finds you attractive but he's wise enough to know that you are probably too young to want to date him.
He's flirting... IF you find him attractive and you think you would like to get to know him better... let him know.
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