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writes: I guess I know the answer to this question but am looking for a second oppion... My girfriend of almost 4 years has left me with the departing lines of "The energy differance between us is bothering her" and the latest is "She needs space." We met 15 years ago in high school and had a talking only relationship. Then after 10 or so years she emails me out of the blue. We meet up and really kicked it off. We have had our ups and downs like all relationships but I think this may be "it'. I think part of it might be that she has a little girl from a past relationship (her Dad is a real putz) and wants the best of her. Her daughter and I have a great time together! Might sound odd but I have more feelings for her than her Mum! I need some advice on what to do.. Thanks!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (26 January 2006):
 Well this is a hard one. I am a little puzzled by the 'energy difference' comment but wonder if this means or you think it means that she wants to devote her time and energy to her daughter. If this is so then I think the best thing you can do is give her the space she has asked for and see how things proceed.
Maybe keep in some form of contact or try too but when you do talk don't talk about 'heavy' stuff at all. Keep it light and try and keep the convo's fun. That way she will come to enjoy them and see them as a break from the other stresses and strains around her. Hopefully then she will come to look forward to the time you talk and some of her previous feelings will re-emerge. Hope that helps.
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