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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey,It is my ex-girlfriend's birthday next week, and was just wondering if it would be a good idea to send a text wishing her well.We're not talking, we didn't really fall out as such but then we didn't really end on good terms, so not sure if it would seem like i'm keeping on or anything, whereas i simply mean it as a gesture of goodwill, and expect nothing in return.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2008): Put yourself in her shoes!
I bet you would consider it to be a nice gesture that she remembered your birthday. So show her that you remembered hers.
I just sent my Ex this text(today):
"Wishing you lots of happiness, good health, peace and love...
Happy Birthday!"
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): Just do it! Keep it short and simple. Just something like "Hey, Happy Birthday. Hope you have a great year". I sent my Ex a birthday card as a friendly gesture, she didn't think anything of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): yeah deffinitely go for it and text her! It's a nice thing to do even if you don't speak to each other often :) and it shows your mature enough to care
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): go for it!
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reader, em1516 +, writes (29 November 2007):
 I believe it would be a good idea, just be honest with her and make it clear that you have no vicious or other intentions.
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