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writes: i am extremly horny and sleep with plenty of men does this make me a whore
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reader, bonym1983 +, writes (21 April 2006):
 Dear reader, I would not like to use the term whore to describe you because that means I am casting judgement on you however, you must ask yourself, why are you sleeping with so many men? Most women are "horny" as you describe it, its normal to get sexual feelings, God made us like that, they are normal, but there is a way to control how we are feeling. Do not let men treat you like a piece of meat, you are a precious individual and your body ought to be treated special. By sleeping with numerous men, you are letting people think you are a whore, but maybe there is a deep void in your life that only sex can fill. Sex just is not about pleasure, it should be be about relationship, intimacy and togetherness, please think carefully before you decide to engage in sex with so many men. God bless you xXx
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reader, Yos  +, writes (20 April 2006):
 No you are not a whore, but you can have future problems because of this. A lot men, whilst they are happy to have sex with a girl that has had many partners, will find it very hard to commit to a longer term relationship with you (if they know). For many reasons, men can struggle with the idea, it messes up their ego and makes them feel 'un-special' with that woman. It's the cliche of 'fuck a whore but marry a virgin', and it is still true under the surface for many men.In particular, the more 'steady' men that have are more 'relationship-material' are the ones that are likely to struggle. This means that you could get into the situation that when you do want to settle down, the kind of man you want to do that with is exactly the kind that is going to have issues with your past.So be careful. And if you get into a good relationship with someone in the future, think very long and hard before you tell them your sexual past, if you don't think they can handle it
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2006): No one has the right to judge you, nor think you are a 'whore' because you like sex. But, people do and will judge..that's the grim reality of society . It's your choice on how you conduct your life. But, depending on the type of person you are...I just want to point out to you that sometimes, a promiscuous lifestyle can come back and 'bite you hard', later in life in both an emotional and physical way. Std's are serious business so I truely hope you are protecting yourself. Unwanted pregnancies are tragic as many of them lead to abortions. Remember, if you get pregnant, your body will be 'housing' a new life...the father (if you can peg the real father) has no emotional bond/connection to you and likely wouldn't give a damn. Emotionally, I believe that sex on a casual basis done for "fun only" is a diminishing experience that only erodes a person's self-esteem, over the long term. Men pursue sex and women pursue love and romance. Men will often use love to get sex and some misguided women will use sex to get love (Perhaps this is you?) If you are willing to provide men with free sex, I am probably right in saying, many of them will have little interest in a love relationship with you. This will wear you down, emotionally. Multiple 'sex only' liasons can leave deep emotional scars and does breed cynicism with many females, but it can also help you develop a greater appreciation of true love once you do find it. I agree with soulsistah, many women in your position do often not uphold themselves to a higher standard and they do mistake sex for affection or even love. Many of us prefer to become emotionally connected to a man who cherishes us, and then have a sexual union. I'm a huge proponent for having sex when you are in a relationship with only that someone who loves you, who cares for you, and who will appreciate the gift of your body and emotions. If your core values are different and you disagree, at least think of the serious health implications and keep protecting yourself. Take care of yourself, dear and I wish you the very best.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (19 April 2006):
 No you are not a whore. You need to accept money for your services before somebody can legitamately call you that.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (19 April 2006):
 I am all for women being able to satisfy their sexual appetite just as much as men and I don't think we should be labelled 'whores' for doing something which men get labelled 'sex gods' for. As long as you're careful in what you're doing, and you're happy, I don't think it matters what anyone else thinks.
However, I have a habit of always questioning women in your position. I don't believe women sleep around for the reasons they think they're doing it. You might say it's because you're horny but, in my experience, girls that do this have very low self esteem and do this for the attention they so badly crave.
I hope you are doing it for the right reasons, we have sexual urges just like men do and we have the right to satisfy them in any way we see fit. Just have a good think if you're doing it for the right reasons and be careful in whatever you do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2006): no i personally think its fine, as long as u use protection. it probably means u just aint found the right guy yet.
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