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What do you do when your best friend goes after the guy you secretly love?

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Question - (8 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ilzDon'tKnow writes:

Alright me and my best friend almost always agree on everything. And me i've been single for like 3 months now. (not complaining mind you) but she's only been single for 2 days. And she's succesfully it on every guy i've ever liked. Recently my friend told me that he's leaving his girlfriend and he's been somewhat flirting with me. When my best friend heard this she decided to tell me that she's planning on dating him. And i told her i've liked him a LONG time and she said she doesn't care. Now im afraid that if i win it'll ruin our friendship. And if she wins i know i won't be able to hang around them. Eigther of them. Im just so confused on what i should do

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008):

O.k if that was her reaction to your admitting to her you like that guy,why then are you still friends with her. she's not your real friend if she would actually go after a guy she knows you like! perhaps its time you let her go. and then be brave and tell this guy that you like him and if she does decide to go after him- don't worry about it, simply let him decide who he likes best and then move on with life! why should you compromise your happiness for her when doesn't really seem to care about you!

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