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*nderagemom2be
writes: So i've been dating this guy for almost two months now and we've had sex. we're both 15 and really stupid, but we have used condoms. im three weeks late and im going to the doctors to get checked tomorrow . how do i tell him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): i've tried take home tests but they come back negative but one of them was defective
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): Have you already tried pregancy tester kits? I'd try them first. It's not unusual for a girl your age to be late or have an erratic menstrual cycle.
Seeing as your going to doctor anyway, just tell him/her the truth, but know that he is obliged to inform your parents as you're too young for confidentiality to apply.
I'm not sure how it works in America but in Ireland your boyfriend would be liable to be prosecuted for statutory rape, very strange law we have to be honest, even though you're both the same age it's the boy that would be seen to be at fault.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): Tell the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): just straight up…that's what doctors are for…the blatant truth is the safest way to go…good luck…doctor's hands are safe hands :)
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