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36-40,
*pple-s
writes:i've met a guy 3months ago, one day while we was having sex he told me he knows people before me, then he started laughing...thhen he would say you look very nice 4 a 3sum, this guy does'nt like me. when i do try 2 move on from him he pulls me back in and pushes me away, he's good at playing mind games and he's da BIGGEST LIAR I'VE EVER CUM ACROSS, i've over heard him talking about me 2 his friends on da phone dissing me and calling me horible names. whenever i call him 2 talk he makes excuses like oh my phone battery is low then he will cut off da phone. 1day he saw me waitin 4 a bus and i saw i saw him chattin up a girl and exchangin numbers then later down da week he's calling me and turning up at my house like nothing happened. i hate this guy he thinks im a sex ojbect. i hate da way he make me feel i wish i could turn back da time. sumtimes i feel that i need answers from him but he wont 2 me on a level, he keeps changing his stories and it piss me off. WHAT 2 DO??????
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (3 July 2010):
 What to do? This man is behaving badly because you let him. You cannot control what he says or how he acts...but if he doesn't meet your expectations and you still carry on having sex with him then what do you expect? He sees you as a booty call and nothing else. He doesn't want a relationship with you and knows he can sleep with you whatever he does - he doesn't care as it is a bit of fun for him. Don't allow yourself to be treated so badly or you end up being a doormat. Happy relationships stem from the ability to communicate and the confidence to assert your wants and wishes and not settle for less. You cannot change him but you can change you - ditch the loser and stay single for a while. In that time you can learn from your past mistakes and don't rush into another relationship that is not right for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): Finish him? at the end of the day, you basically answered your own question. you know he only wants you for sex and you obviously want more than that? easier said than done, i know. but when someone disrespects you over the phone to someone else, is he really worth your time?
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