A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I need some help with this situation:FACTS:- We've known each other for about 2 months, met through a friend- We've spoken everday wether it be txt email or msn. But extensively -huge messages numerous times a day- We met up for a few drinks then she suggested going out for the day last weekend and also we've just been for a meal and cinema tonight.- I tried to go for a small peck on the lips last week when saying goodbye but she turned her cheek to me- She admits to not being able to say no to people and actively being too nice and going out of her way to make people happy when she doesn't want to- She also says that she usually only goes out in twos rather than in groups (does this mean what seems like a date to me doesn't to her?)- She is starting to confide in me and telling me things she would normally find embarressingSo- what does this mean? friends or more? what should i do? will she lose interest if i don;t make a move soon? how do i make a move? should i make a move? what does this situation seem like to anyone else? thanks for your time.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (3 December 2008):
well..if you like her, then you should ask her out and take the initiative. She probably doesn't know what's going with you since you haven't made a move.
If you don't like her then let things fade.
The ball is in your court
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