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What can we do to keep our relationship going?

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Question - (3 March 2005) 8 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2007)
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I have been going out with my girlfriend for three and a half years and six months ago we split for a while but got back together after a couple of months. Before the split we were always talking about being together forever but now my girlfriend is always worried about whether we will survive.

We have been going out since teenagers and we were very much in love and i still love her as much as ever. I can tell she still loves me and doesn't want to split up again but i can see she still isn't happy.

I have spoken to here about it and she doesn't really know what the problem is.

I don't know what else to try and i don't want to lose her again.

Is there anything you can suggest we try to keep our relationship going?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007):

here is what i think and almost KNOW that if you want to keep a relationship going you MUST do anything in your "power" to keep your "other" happy and if you can learn to trust each other then your love for one another only grows it may take time but with this i've dated the girl im with for 5 years keep at it and NEVER GIVE UP

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007):

All that u have to do is, u have be faithful to your partner and also the both of u have to commniucat alot. becourse commuincation play a bigger rolle in a relationship.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2007):

All that u have to do is, u have be faithful to your partner and also the both of u have to commniucat alot. becourse commuincation play a bigger rolle in a relationship.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2006):

Well man all i could say me being who i am isn't very creditable, but do you make her feel very pleased( not sexualy)? In more of a mental way. Do you keep certian things or days special.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2006):

you have to reasure her that everything will be better. A relationship is a ton of work but if you both have the love in your hearts for one another you will last!!!! Make sure you pay attention to your girlfriend and show her that you are happy. (key word...show) sometimes words are just not enough. If she doesn't have the confidence that she should try to build her confidence by paying compliments to her that will build her self esteem and will allow her to feel better about the relationship!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2006):

heya dont worry, try buying her the occasional smal gift as a "just because". also try doing some of the smaller things to keep her happy with her asking. such as open the door for her or help carry the shopping or help her cook and tidy up. working together brings care and trust together and helps the relationship strengthen.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2005):

I know how you feel i'm in your situation andthe best advise i can give to you from experiance is talking it out works alot and it help to comunicate. tell her what you just wrote on the computer. She deserves to know how you feel and then maybe she will understand and spill it out to you.

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (18 July 2005):

You'll have to give your girlfriend a lot of reassurance. Pay her compliments and make her feel special.

It sounds like she is very insecure.

Hopefully, in time she will realise you are serious about the relationsdhip and she will be able to relax.

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