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male
age
41-50,
*jii onaze
writes:This has troubled since I got married two years ago. I used to have a married lady as sex partner where I lived in my school day. We loved each other before we both married. Now we still make love when I travel to the city where she lives with her family. What can I do stop stop my feelings for her? I don't want my marriage to crash, someone help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): You should of not got married then you are ruining your relationship with the partner you gave vows to. Its time to end this relationship with this woman and be with just your married partner or divorce and go to the other woman. Remember you are just having sex with her, the grass may not be greener you may find the woman you have now is really quite green but your not seeing that being blinded by sex with this other woman you may lose it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2011): Stop meeting with her. Cut off all contact with her. Eventually, the feelings will dissipate when you get involved in a life with someone who is single and can really ring your bell! If you both are not available, then you are not the right couple. Timing can be really important, and now is not your time.
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reader, Smileypants  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 Um, stop going to her house. The only way is to basically don't have any contact with her anymore. Remember your wife and the vows you made when its tempting to contact this woman.
Personally I hope your wife finds out and leaves your ass. Why did you even marry her just to do this to her? Cheaters suck.
Good luck.
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reader, Buffori  +, writes (20 May 2011):
Convince yourself to stop thinking about her. Its you whose in need of her. Maybe she's not in need of you. Start caring about your married life. All comes from your brain. Put a full stop in that story, try to forget it as your past. And continue fully in your married life as if everything was normal. At the beginning it will surely be hard but you'll get used to it. And start getting an approach to your wife!
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