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*eloved44
writes:Hi. well i am 16 years old and i just broke up with a bf of me. A friend of mine keeps messing up my relation. everytime i got a new bf she always messes it up. She messed it this time up also. Well where friends since we where babys. We are like best friends you could say. We also did stuff together wen we where younger to exprince. Well what can i do to not destory the friendship but also to let my relations work?
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reader, Yos +, writes (16 November 2007):
 If that's not 'it', she needs to tell you what 'it' is... ask her. And don't let her avoid answering the question truthfully. It's good that you're dealing with this by trying to talk openly about it. Stick with that approach.
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reader, Beloved44 +, writes (14 November 2007):
Beloved44 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI talked to her about that. I explaned her that she was loved and i always would set her on the first place. That i never would let some guy get between us. Then suddenly she strarts getting mad and runs mad out the house. She said before she left. ''Thats not it stupid!''. So what can i do now?
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reader, Yos +, writes (10 November 2007):
This sound like typical girl jealousy. Perhaps she needs a boyfriend too? Once she has one she'll be busy enough not to mind if you have one. The good news is that if one or the other of you has a nice boyfriend, they tend to have other male friends... meaning a potential boyfriend for the other.
There's also a small possibility that she's in love with you. Have you considered that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2007): It sounds like your friend might be afraid of losing you to boyfriend. Perhaps you should assure her that you won't put your boyfriend first, and make sure she knows you aren't ditching her over a boy, and that you value her friendship highly. I'm not sure what she did specifically, so I can't give you much advice there, but I think you should make sure she knows shes loved and that you value her. Good luck.
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