A
female
age
41-50,
*hutterbug
writes:My girlfriend always loses patience when I'm running late from work. The worst is when we're both anxious for each other but I come home a half hour or less late, which is usually out of my hands, and she will shut down and be out of the mood. I know coming home is bad but I also don't think 15-30 minutes is the amount of time it should take to lose mojo. I actually feel insulted that I'm not good enough or "worth waiting" for. After a while the frustration from not fooling around or having sex increases tension and can stir up other arguments and grievances with each other. Then I feel like I can't imagine how she can go from wanting to make long all night passionate love to not standing anything about me, and call me a loser for not being able to finish my job on time. What can I do to make her see sense? Reply to this Question
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reader, shutterbug +, writes (20 June 2010):
shutterbug is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo clarify since it continues..... The love we make is AMAZING! I KNOW she feels the same because she turns into a lamb after wards...cuddling and will always be first to say "I Love You"... after its all done. Sometimes we've both felt the sex is the best thing we do, even though we didn't admit it at time because we have too much invested in each other for that type of relationship. I dread that scenario.
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