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writes: my life so far has been the epitome of continuous unrequited love. now i like someone, am clueless how he feels, and am petrified. i dont like liking people cos I always get hurt. I need to know what to do cos Im stuck and depressed.
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reader, Teacake +, writes (3 December 2008):
I can relate very much to your situation. I guess you have to take a chance on being hurt if you want love in your life. Its always a huge risk. Is it better to have nothing?
Only that Dali Lama says life without sex is more pleasant. No complications. No drama. No attachments. No pain. It works for him - but most of us need human attachment and you can't avoid risk of pain. So, might as well jump in and not let your fears stop you!
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