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writes:What are the problems in a relationship if the guy is 19 and the girl is 22?What is the defects or side effects of such a relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, Age Factor +, writes (27 May 2010):
Age Factor is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for your comments. Well the issue out here is that my girl loves me alot but only thing is that she would'nt accept that fact and is just trying to hide it inside just cause her mum and sis are against such a relationship cause im younger. She's so confused that the moment they tell her about me her head gets diverted. She asked me to forget her its been 2 weeks for our break-off but neither of us could move on. I need help how tomake her realise the importance of our relationship? how to get us back. And for the plus point Iam already working and earning a decent account so its not the issue of not being able to support her. SERIOUS AND URGENT HELP...:-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2010): Two years isn't a gap to be worried about. I know it must sound like a lot to someone who was recently in school. But out here in the big world no one much cares and two years is as close as being the same age (same cultural influences, same memorable occasions, same social expectations, etc).
Just behave like you are her age and you'll be fine.
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Age is just a number and 2 years is not even a big difference. I dated a guy 2 years younger than me and we had no problems at all.
Some guys prefer dating older girls because they think that the older girls are more experienced and more confident. The older girls might also be more rational.
Problems: if one of you is a lot more mature in their way of thinking than the other, it may not work out.
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reader, Angel93  +, writes (24 May 2010):
mainly the thing is age factor in Asian countries it is considered more if the guy is less than the girls age then there will b less of understanding the girl or the guy wont understand the way they need to... normally girls gets matured faster than guys then later on guys get slowly.....so that's why it is suggested mostly the guy should be elder to the girl so that their thinking's match.... and understand each other....
in this case of yours the effects will b : time being understanding will b there but further it will lessen the understanding, there will b fights , problems will b lately solved...
SO then think about these r not only the effects there are more effects on this thing.....
normally people in this generation they think this is not a big thing age factor but it does matter ...
k then friend best of luck..........
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): This really depends on the type of person you and her are.
Girls generally hate to feel like they're mothering the guy. I'd be wary of that. This might be a problem because she might feel more experienced than you at something or might have more life skills (driving/cooking/taking care of self generally). She might feel more serious than you in the relationship so that could possibly be an issue if your not feeling the same way.
Ultimately though, its up to you and her. It really shouldnt make a difference but it might if you or her let it.
Hope this helps
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