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writes: I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for three years (I’m 26, he’s 27). The reason it’s been “on and off” for so long is pretty much due to horrible timing. I was just starting a new relationship when we first met, then he was in one…I travel often for work and he’s been deployed three times, each for extended periods of time, since we met. Anway, right now everything is going our way and it looks like it’s the perfect time for us to have a great relationship. The problem is that he won’t have sex! When we first met, he explained to me that though he’s not a virgin, he doesn’t want to have sex with just anyone and he thinks sex is special and all that. So, I feel like after all this time, he knows that it isn’t just some casual one night stand. He’s comfortable doing anything, except actual intercourse. When we’re together, he tells me how bad he wants me and other than the sex thing, everything is perfect. He’s very attentive and pretty much everything a girl would want. I just don’t understand how an otherwise normal guy doesn’t want to have sex! I guess it could just be that he has very strong morals, but it just seems very unlikely to me. Anybody have any ideas what could be going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): This is not normal. I would suspect he has an insecurity of some kind. communication is the key. Honesty and openess is always always the best policy.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Did he get a disease when he was deployed that he doesn't want you to know about? Or is he waiting for marriage?
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reader, lovexgurl19 +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Maybe to you, sex isnt as imnportant, as it is to him. I think is good, because that means he doesnt want you just for sex, but he wants to wait until he falls in love, or maybe until he gets married. This is a unique guy, abd believe me in times like this is rare to find a guy like that. Be patient, and respect his decision. Hit me up, if you have more questions.
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