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writes:I'm in a relationship with a man who has 2 children with a ex girlfriend (1 isn't his but he raised him as his own). We have been together for 6 months now and he refuses to tell his ex about me. They broke up over a year ago. He says its because she won't let him see the kids. I do understand his fear but i hate being kept a secret. They go out regulary as a family which when this happens i do not hear from him or cannot call him. He stays with me nearly every evening, but on occassion has stayed at his ex's after a day out. He's told me also that she has asked him back several times, even though they argue a lot (which i have heard personally when she calls him). I just dont know how to feel, am i wrong for wanting his ex to know about me, it makes me feel like his bit on the side without her knowing
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (6 May 2010):
Im afaird it doesnt sound good, you ened to give him an ultimatum, either he tells her or you're over. its not fair on you and I can only see one reason for keeping this a secret, thats if somethings still going on with them
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