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writes: I have been having casual sex with a guy on/off for 2yrs. After 3 months of no contact, he contacted and we meet up and had sex. He has said he doesn't want a girlfriend and I now feel like I am being used. what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (11 April 2005):
 You need to simply be strong and end it. If its not something that the both want then you will resent this person. If you want more then he does then you are get incredibly hurt. Sounds as if you have got more feelings for this guy that you would probably admit, but thats why you are letting him treat you like this. Its not on, its not fair on either of you in the long run.Get out there and find someone worthy of your commitment. This guy is quite happy for you to wait around until he gets the urge for sex. Stop yourself giving in. Move on and find a man that will repsect you, and be happy to spend time with you all the time, not just when he feels like it or gets the urge.Good LuckTake care x
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reader, lildev666 +, writes (10 April 2005):
You should politely decline the next time the person you have been having casual sex gets in touch. You are worth much more and can rise above his mentallity. Wouldnt you feel better in a loving and caring relationship, than to be at someones call everytime they wasnt sex, that means nothing more than Just sex.
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