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writes: After sex with my boyfriend his sprem seems to just flow stright back out of me. It is really upseting him as we are trying for a baby. why does this happen? As it has never happened before with anyone else i have slept with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): Certain men ejaculate larger volumes than others (current partner more than previous). This also changes depending on "period of abstinence".
Not to worry. Enough semen will also go in.
Love from mom of two
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): Don't worry!! It doesn't all come rushing out. Some will find a way in, you will be surprised how clever these little sperms are! They get you pregnant when you least want to be. I know, three kids later!!! So stop worrying, you don't have to do anything drastic they will get to the right spot.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): I have a good idea. After sex, he could pick you up by the legs and hang you in the air for half an hour?
Or seriously - don't worry. Do a position that encourages sperm to travel up towards your fallopian tubes and after sex, stay lying down for a good 30 minutes or so.
And don't worry about this "his sperm keeps flowing back" nonsense. Sperm does not have any kind of artificial intelligence, it is not inside you and thinking "ewww - this women is disgusting, let's swim out way out as quickly as we can" the difference you are seeing is imaginary. I can only guess that, maybe you don't feel entirely happy with this man being the father to your child? And for once, I agree with helpful girl. It does take only a drop, well, far less than a drop, of sperm to get you pregnant. Not only that, but there are forces at work, within your vagina, that encourage sperm to make that long and tiring journey up to your egg.
Good luck with the baby making :)
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