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male
age
41-50,
*esuvius
writes:Hi All,i have been with my girlfriend for many years now and i have a problem which is givin me headhaches.We are just not on the same wavelenght as far as sex.She just seems not to like sex so much, at least as much as i do, and i realy feel frustated by this.She seems to do everything just because i like it and not because she really enjoys. I probably am a bit of too much, but hey i like sex and everything that comes with it, is this a sin?I have tried to be gentle with my girly and explain to her that all these things re normal in a relationship, but this did not help.Also, she only likes having sex with me on top, and this is quite frustating for a man think.Any Adivce is much appreciated.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): Many men have a higher sex drive than women so this problem is something that many people will experience. Women don't reach their sexual peak until they are 40, whereas men reach it at 18.
Try asking her what she enjoys, what positions, where she likes to be touched etc. Its embarrassing but its worth it.
Personally, I don't enjoy going on top either, if she isn't as experienced as you she may feel self-concious or perhaps just doesn't get any pleasure.
Hope this helps!
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