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writes: Hi I really need some advice, when it comes to men I am 100% clueless, I really like this guy and I think he likes me and I want to take the initative and ask him out.The thing is we are friends and see each other quite a lot and so I was wondering does anyone have any ideas on how to ask him out but so there is no pressure so he can say no if he wants and it wont be really weird.Thanks guys Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (28 April 2006):
 I wonder if you could plan an outing with you,him and a group of other friends. That way there is less pressure on him as it is not technically a date but when you get out you can get to know him better within that less pressured context. Maybe then you will know better if you can follo-up with a date which is just the two of you.
Other than that I cant think of any other way than the direct way. Hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2006): Get drunk together and just blurt it out. take the chance you may fall out but hey, whats the point in pretending to be just friends when you really want more. As a geeza it would not make unhappy to know you like me more than you should but you should prepare your self for a knock back.I waited on a girl for 3 years pretending to be just a good friend when really i wanted more eventualy she got her self a boy friend who in turn pushed me out anyway. Thinking back i would have lost nothing by telling her.You live but once. hey
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