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female
age
41-50,
*huwariwaps
writes:hi there!i am 24 and i get married when i was 21 with a older man 12yrs age gap.now im working abroad i find this another guy which i fell in love and he is more than my husband.in responsibilities, caring for me and also in bed. he is also married. he wants to marry in proper time. i love him so much. too bad we were both in a lifetime commitment. i am pretty sure that i dont love my husband anymore long before i met this guy. what keeps me to think twice is that our daughter is with him. i am afraid that he will hide her away from me.should i go for my feelings? or as early as now i should stop this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): think about this - you want to choose this married love over your own child. speaks volumes about you as a mother? will you just abondone her or will you try talking to your babay. telling her that mummy loves her but mummy is going to go her seperate way. your priority right now should not be yor married lover- it should be that innocent child who did not ask to be born. choices, my dear.
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reader, 2old4this  +, writes (4 July 2009):
 If you have problems with your husband then the first thing to do is find out why and if your marraige is saveable. If it is not then you should seperate. Also, you cannot pursue this other guy unless he is seperate from his wife. You both need to fix or end your marraiges before anything else can happen.
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