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writes: My boyfriend and I are on very shaky ground. Over the last few weeks we have split up and got back together a few times. He says he has realised there is life outside of us and thinks he wants to split up.We have been together for a few years and I thought we were happy. The worst thing is I think he has fallen for my friend, although he won't say so.I really don't know what to do, I really don't want to split up and I feel totally gutted we have come to this. If we did split and he did get with my friend, I don't know what i would do. i would be totally gutted.
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reader, Nikita  +, writes (6 December 2006):
 Dear Anon, I'm so sorry you're feeling so bad. It seems like its a case of the grass is always greener for him now he's had a taste of it. This may be hard for you but I feel that although you love him, you should let him go. You will be gutted and heartbroken but if you try and carry on this way itll only hurt more in the long run because he'll only be in the relationship halfheartedly. If your friend knows how gutted you'll be im sure that she wouldn't have a relationship with him herself knowing how much you'll hurt. Talk with him and ask him if this is what he seriously wants. If it is then you'll have to respect that. It maybe that afterwards he realises he's made a mistake but only you can decide how many more times you take him back. Sometimes its better to have a clean break. I really hope it works out for you okay and hope Ive helped a little. Good luck.
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