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*onfussed jane
writes: me and my boyfriend are serious and love each other and trying to have sex but for me it hurts to much and i wanted it to be special but just hurts to much for me i feel it is my fault and feel really bad has anyone got any advice to stop it hurting? please help thank you!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2006): hey, it always hurts the first few times because ur smaller than what a guys penisn is relax and tell ur boyfriend to go slowly and lean into it then it wont hurt as much as long as you trust ur bf to be carful with u it will be fine hope i help xx zoe xx
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reader, selekta +, writes (20 August 2006):
Hey girl firstly,do you really know youre ready to have sex,emotianally and physically,because alot of guys arent always what they say they are-I know coz I'm a guy.If you are try lubrication such as vaselline,but some things damage latex so becareful what you use,and tell your partner to insert his penis slowly and gently.
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reader, selekta +, writes (20 August 2006):
Hey girl firstly,do you really know youre ready to have sex,emotianally and physically,because alot of guys arent always what they say they are-I know coz I'm a guy.If you are try lubrication such as vaselline,but some things damage latex so becareful what you use,and tell your partner to insert his penis slowly and gently.
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reader, Will1000 +, writes (20 August 2006):
 In my opinion I think you should remember, it's not your fault, if it hurts, try lubricants, and relax and dont worry just stay laidback and try and calm down
W1000
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reader, David Lewis  +, writes (20 August 2006):
 Very true
You need to make sure you are completely at ease.
Just make sure that you are completely honest with him and dont pretend it does not hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2006): Have you and your boyfriend tried lubricants if not that might help,also make sure you are relaxed because if you are nervous and tense it will hurt you.
best of luck.
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