We love each other but I feel hes afraid

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

When My ex-boyfriend - (who is very emotional in a quiet way) - gets upset he throws himself into extreme work at the office and at home. It is his way of protecting himself when he is upset. I have seen him 4 times in the past 3 weeks and we have talked a few times a week. I feel like he really wants us to get back together but in the past I ran to him. I don't want to be the one this time. I feel like he is making a decision about me. It is funny because when I talked to him last week I thought he had a current g/f (town gossip) and I said it is not nice to see me if you have a g/f and he said he hasn't decided yet. I had dinner with him last night and from the conversation I thnk he was talking about Me. (We both had been extremely hurt by the split.) He had loved me heart and soul and gave me his all - Long story. He said he hasn't had any g/f in his life since me and really hasn't been out much lately. So now I just don't know what to do I feel like he wants me to chase him but I feel like I should wait and give him time he spent all weekend by himself working on his bathroom. Any suggestions I love him and know he loves me but feel he is afraid or am I just being stupid?

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