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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i were officially together for 3 weeks when we had sex for the first time. i know it was too soon but we both really wanted it. we were both also virgins. after that we didnt see each other for four weeks. and we still havent had sex again. we only did it once and i really want to do it again, but i dont feel like he really wants to. he says that he does and he loved it, but we still havent done it again. could it be that he doesnt want to do it again or he's scared to do it again? and also now that we have had sex he seems different. what could it be? please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (19 October 2008):
maybe he had expectations of how good it would be, when the reality of it is the first time is always awful. Maybe he thought he would perform better then he did. just ask him if anything is bothering him. it gets better with time, he just needs to realise that. but please use protection!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2008): well think about it- losing your virginity to someone is a big step in life (yes i do think it was too soon but that was your decision- and his- entirely) maybe he was uncomfortable?
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