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We had to stop because of the pain. Any advice for our next try?

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Question - (24 February 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and My boyfriend decided to try and have sex last night. We started off with a bit of foreplay, he fingered me with 3 fingers so i thought i was ready. He inserted his penis but it hurt so much i had to stop him. I was in so much pain. It didnt hurt after, just as he was inserting it. A bit of blood came out, but not much at all and this was after this happened. Thank god he was understanding and didnt make it embarrasing at all.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008):

It's natural for it to hurt during your first time, more so in some women. Personally, I didn't feel any pain, but everyone's different. The blood will most likely be your hymen breaking. You're probably just not entirely ready for sex at the moment. Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008):

Hi Hunny

Your first time will hurt a little and you maybe are not ready, You need to be relaxed love...Im sending you a link go down the page to the questions that apply to you and this should be of great help to you in all aspects

http://www.avert.org/faqypsex.htm#q5

I hope this helps love TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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