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female
age
36-40,
*londe1987
writes:Hey,I have never used this b4 but here goes,i was engaged to this guy and we were together for 4 1/2 years, i got very bored as it was a long distance relationship.he was alot older then me but he looked after me always put me first.Now there was this guy at work who was texting me showing a intrest so we meet one saturday after work and spent the day together, it was great i have never been held so closly and felt safe.Anyway i finally relised that i was in a relationship that i didnt love anymore i was fed up so i left him.So i was single doing things a single girl does but it got to much for me, i was always cryin and felling alone, but at the right time this guy from work was there as a friend we went away for the weekend, i was really great we had sex and then monday morning came and he said i dont want to spoil our friendship i was gutted, felt even worse!anyway we are now together and he tells me he loves me all the time kisses hugs all that stuff but find it really hard to believe him.I need some help or advise to help me chill out b4 i lose wat hasn started yet!thanksblonde
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reader, blackberry008  +, writes (1 October 2008):
 Trust your gut feeling.
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reader, Morp  +, writes (1 October 2008):
 i pity the guy who spent 4 1/2 years with you . Time will tell , You should believe in a thing called karma and feelings . Sex , and he doesnt want to lose frindship , now he says he loves you , but you dont believe him . How long have you both seen each other so far for a men to say i love you ,, it it the flesh or was it his heart . Go do the homework . I pity the guy for 4 1/2 years cause he tried and so did you but you got bored and bailed.
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