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writes:Right, well... I was going out with this guy over the summer for about 2 months, and at first it was really good, we really liked each other, but then he got very distant and cold, hardly ever texted me and avoided me like I was a walking disease. This really messed me up in the head and I just got really upset over it. Then he broke up with me and we actually stayed really good friends afterwards, I was quite impressed with us! But then, over the pastt few weeks he's been hitting on me more and more and tried to kiss me a few times, but I've pulled away. Then, this wednesday, we were sharing a lift home after going clubbing, but I couldnt find the seatbelt, so he put his arm around me to hold me in and somehow we ended up kissing...he started telling me how much he'd missed me and what an idiot he'd been to break up with me and that he wanted to give it another go. I was sceptical but was giving it serious consideration because, although he'd treated me terribly at the time, his grandmother had been dying of cancer back then, and that would mess anyone up. So I was willing to give him the benefit of the doubt. Then I found out that he had cheated on me when we were going out the first time, although he says it was just one tiny kiss and he pushed the girl off after about 10 seconds, but I only have his word for that...I still want him and am willing to believe he could be better than that...but...I don't know, should I trust him? I just really don't want to be hurt and treated badly and humiliated again...
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reader, Xx-Ellie-xX  +, writes (5 November 2007):
if you feel like you cant trust him well thats not a good thing to build a new relationship on!! maybe just take it easy for awhile, put him to the test ! if he loves you he will be willing to wait !
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