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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Please just take the time to read this so I can get some advice because I've been stuck on him for 7 months.I "unofficially" dated this guy back in May, we dated for a few weeks, nothing happened, we didn't kiss or anything. We were taking it slow because that's what he said he wanted, and seeing as it was my first relationship/date/guy or whatever you call an unofficial guy.. I wasn't ready to jump into things either.He told me he was only dating me, so I was pleased. Seeing as it was unofficial, he could date as many girls as he wants to.I broke my leg in the beginning of June, and was in caste for 20weeks.. So I could never go to see him, and my family didn't know about him, so he came to me see me twice at my house.. Because it would've been uncomfortable for him and I understand that.While I had broken my leg, things went awkward, I tried really hard to keep it going!I rang, texted, spoke on MSN. (Not soooo much for him to find it annoying, but enough) Just to know I was still there and I still had feelings for him.After about 8weeks, in the middle of July, I decided to sign onto facebook as I hadn't logged on for a while, and I saw comments on his page from this girl who claimed to be his girlfriend.I didn't say anything, incase I had got it wrong, but I then saw a picture of him and her together.I was obviously confused and I didn't know what to think or do.He then came online and said to me: "We cant carry on dating anymore because i've got myself a girlfriend now, you don't have to say anything, but I thought I should let you know". (So he probably found another girl to date when I broke my leg)I was literally heartbroken, I wasn't able to get out of the house because the caste was all the way upto the top of my leg, I was always in bed and him leaving me just made it worse.He was never officially mine, so it hurt even more when I couldn't say anything about it, cause he was never actually mine in the first place.We got back to school in September and he didn't say a word to me, he's in 3 of my lessons and he looks at me, we do make eye contact, but we turn away.It's like we don't know each other anymore. Everything is over. Our friendship is over as well.In October, I brought myself to tell him everything! We spoke for 2hours on MSN, I told him how much he hurt me, how much i felt for him, and that I still liked him.He said his feelings for me were completely gone, and I actually did stop liking him. I truly believe him being so rude about it helped me.But lately, especially over this past week, i'm always thinking about him, always talking about him, listening to songs that remind me of him.I really felt I was over him, and now I think the feelings are coming back.I don't have a clue.I'm only 16, and we only dated 3 weeks, but we carried it on while my leg was broken, he wasn't even my official boyfriend, and it wasn't love.But for some reason, I cannot get over him!Is there anyone who has been through something similar? Or knows where i'm coming from?
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