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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend dumped me a week ago; although it was kind of mutual. We dated for a year but we were constantly arguing and although we feel really attracted to each other, things were not working out anymore so i knew we had to break up. At the beginning i was sad and upset but after a couple of days I'm feeling a lot better; i just don't like break ups. Now the problem is that i really miss having sex with him, he is really good at that, for me at least. I am happy, i don't want to go back with him or try to work things out, i don't miss him at all, i just want to continue having sex with him. He said he didn't feel the same way about me anymore (he doesn't love me anymore) but he still finds me really attractive. Should i go ahead and have sex with him, like a friends with benefits thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i know its still too soon, but I'm thinking that maybe after a while we could be fwb and we'll both be ok with that.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 November 2011):
 I had a situation like this... I dated a guy for a while (less than a year) I was in my 30s... divorced... he was divorced... we just did not work as a romantic couple but we ended up staying FWB for a while...
i would go see him on Thursdays... have sex spend the night and head to work the next morning... it just kind of happened....
I actually have fond memories of this man.... in all honesty it worked for me but I can't say that it would work for others especially if one partner wants it to be more than it can be....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2011): No absolutely not, its a bad idea and way too soon,your better off with no contact at all.
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