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writes: I need some advice please.My boyfriend and I got back together in Jan after a break of about 3 mths.We both cheated (only kissed) other people, so decided it would be best to go our separate ways and see how we feel.After a while when he found I was seeing someone else he told me he wanted me back and I didn't want to as was having fun.I got back with him in Jan as wanted to give it another go. Everything was great to start with - he said he had changed and wanted to go out more and do things I wanted to do and see my family more and be more affectionate towards me. all this he did.We both live with parents, currently nearby each other, in our middle 20's and were thinking of getting a place together and he said he wanted to be with me forever.However recently he has changed again. He is quiet, rude sometimes and unaffectionate, almost cold! He has also stopped wanting to go out and do the things I like and said he told me that to get me back. He hardly ever gives me any compliments anymore either.I am thinking now he won't change and perhaps I should get out of this relationship and get someone better?When I ask him if anything is wrong he says everything is fine and will I stop nagging! Don't know what to do. :-(
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reader, nadine hillside +, writes (27 May 2006):
 Dear Reader,
I understand how you feel. The thing is you need to say to him 'i thought you changed but i guess i was wrong, i can see you are back to your selfish ways'.
I think you need to do what you said and get out of the relationship it is obvious he doesn't care about you or your family but himself.
He isn't worth the hassle so my advice to you would be go and find someone else he obvioulsy isn't good enough for you.
Hope everything works out. Goodluck.
Nadine
xXx xxx
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (8 May 2006):
 Dear Reader in a tight spot!
I know what you mean. It can be difficult at times to know what to do. Especially when you have feelings for the person and want to push them away but not loose them at the same time. It depends if you have true feelings for him or just think you are in love with him truly. My advice in a situation like this would be: Tell him you don't want to nagg, you just care about him and want to know what's up cos u can sense something. I hope all goes well,
Good Luck, All The Best and Blessed Be,
Phoebe
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