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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: well i've been on the relationship with this guy for almost 7 months after 3 months that we met we decided to live together we used get along so good it was too perfect to be real then evrything changed. we broke up almost a month ago but he still lives with me the only diff is that we sleep in diff rooms and at 1st i was really depressed but now i lil' better but i just found an email da he went to sleep with this girl that he met on the internet and the other things is grls keep callin at my home phone.I don't know what to do, it feels like he didn't want me to move on and last nite still told me da he still luv me what should i do?
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reader, chachacha +, writes (2 March 2007):
I agree with Dr Pete below - although you have the option of asking him to move out.
I don't believe that ex-lovers can live in the same house as each other without a lot of pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2007): To me you have one very clear option here: Move out. If he is sleeping with other girls, he does not love you, nor does he even respect you, how could he? Don't let his words confuse you.
Stop allowing yourself to be in this position, find your self-respect and either throw him out, or move out.
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