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female
age
30-35,
*babibri28x
writes:Okay...well my boyfriend and I have been going out for a while now. He told me he loved me really quick in the relationship. But we also were very close friends on and off through out 3 or 4 years. Then we hung out one day and it was like an automatic spark. He broke up with me the first time becasue he wasnt ready for a long term realtionship because he hated the feeling of thinking about what i was doing and who i was talking to. But, when we broke up we ignored me for four days prior, and i heard a bunch of things about him nad this girl after we had broken up. For about a month we were broken up and he ran back to me when he showed up at a party i was at. We talked for a while then started dating again. Now he tells me he loves me but why dont i believe it? He seems to have no problem not talking to me for a day and not seeing me when all i want to do is see him. He also walks away easily when we're fighting. He says i do it because i hate fighting with you. Why am i so scared? When he's drunk he gets more in depth with it and says i want to marry you, what's your ring size, when i move to NC give it a couple months and i will get us a house. I'm so scared! I dont know how not to be what do i do?!
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (5 August 2008):
 First off, you are way too young to even consider marraige.
In fact he's young too. I say don't take what he says too seriously. The reason you have doubt about him is because of his actions contradicts what he says. Do not get married. Date around and see what's out there.
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