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26-29,
*ovelessagain
writes:We dated for a week and at the end of the week there was a school dance. I had expected it to be the night of my dreams i was hoping to get my first kiss. Instead my friends wouldnt let me get within a foot of him the entire dance(ny friends did not aprove).When there was only 33 minutes left of the dance and i was finnaly freed of my "friends" i started to look around for my boyfriend and i found him in the middle of a grinding line. He was grinding on an 8th grader i had never met he had his hands all over her and then he made eye contact with me i turned away and before i could walk away he was behind me.I told him that i wanted to talk to him with no intentionof breaking up. I was hurt but i still loved him. We went into the hallway to talk. The second we got out there he blamed it all on me saying i ignored him and its my fault and of coarse i blamed him. After argguing for what seemed like ever i told him that i thought we should start over and he agreed but he took it the wrong way thinking i was breaking up with him and before i knew it he was all over the same 8th grader. I went home crying adn he never even noticed. About a week later were friends and i still was in love with him. He dosnt know it and he already has told me repeatedly who he likes. what do i do to try and get him back before he winds up going out with someone else? Please help
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 May 2010):
 Now I can see why your friends don't approve of him. He's grinding all over another 8th grader the night of the dance, and then blames it on you? He had the ability to go to you and ask you to dance, or at least tell you he's feeling ignored BEFORE going to find someone else.
You should thank your friends for watching out over you and drop this guy. They say that girls mature faster than guys, and this is definitely evident here.
Before you try to get him back, ask yourself if you want a guy who blames you for his cheating on you, or do you want a guy who doesn't even look at another girl while he's with you.
You have cool friends, and they did you a favor by making it so that this guy cheated on you and then blamed you. That reveals his character.
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