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writes: My g/f recently broke up with me about a month ago after a 2 year relationship, she still asks me 2 see her and when i do she cant keep her hands of me, we normally cuddle and kiss and end up having sex and then just laying together for hours, she tells me she still really cares about me but is worried bout what her friends will say because she told them she was glad it was over and didn't want to be with me but now she's realised the mistake, she also says she's worried about if we get back together we'll drift apart again (thats the reason she broke it off the first time) but i've told her i won't let it happen and won't let either of us miss out on anything that we did the first time around, she has her prom tonight and she really wanted me to go but wouldn't take me coz she was worried bout her friends bitchin about her behind her back i don't know what to do because i really love her i wrote her a letter tellin her all my feelings and she couldn't stop crying when reading and after i asked if she would get back with me and she said she didn't know what 2 say because she didn't want 2 say no because she still really cares about me what can i do? (there's still quite a lot more 2 say but i'll stop there lol)
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (28 June 2006):
 Take Camille's advice. Don't meet up with her and don't call her. Tell her she has some decisions to make and if she can let her friends influence her in that manner to were her life is affected whoelse and whatelse can influence her. Let her know what she is missing and she will have to come to some kind of decision. Either she will let you walk or you both can walk together. Good Luck.
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reader, camille  +, writes (28 June 2006):
 Boot her out! If she keep taking her back for sex, cuddles, writing her love letters, making her feel wanted, she's not really missing anything is she? If she cares about you, she'll come back regardless of what her mates think. Tell her you don't want to hear from her gain until she's made a decision, one she can stick to. If she's not willing to take another chance, she's not worth having. If you stop meeting up with her, she'll have to face up to it. She may really care, but she's using you. One word of advice, don't make promises at this early age (or any to be honest) as you don't really know if you can keep them and it'll always be brought up. Just say you feel things will work out, you hope they do and you will try your hardest, but to say you won't let it happen again, is pressure and aking for trouble.
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