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writes: heya, me and my boyfriend of 3 years have recently split up over a silly argument, we have decided to be friends, but at the same time he tells me there is a chance we may get back together, but he needs to work out how he feels. i have met up with him a few times and i can feel there is still an attraction on both sides and one thing leads to another. i love him so much and im so happy when i see him, but when i don't see him im on a downer. over the last couple of days hes gone out drinking with his friends and im so worried about how much he is enjoying being single and im fearing he his meeting other girls. i know owt most people will say is to stay away from him, but i cant what do you think i should do?
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (5 November 2006):
 I agree with rhythmandblues2. Stay away from him. I know its hard but you will end up very hurt if you don't. I know it will be hard but think of how hard it will be to take seeing him with another woman if you haven't healed from the break-up. Trust me its gut wrenching. Do yourself a favor and stay away. If he wants you he will contact you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2006): After a three year relationship, a "silly argument" would not be enough to break you up if your guy is truly committed to you. I would definately "stay away from him", in fact I would be down right put out by his distancing behavior....I would not let him return until he made a definate committment of exclusivity and a possible future marriage proposal. Do NOT apologize for wanting to be married, you deserve it if you are at the age to warrant it, and are ready to move to the next level. If you are very young, take this as a cue to make your exit and be on your merry way.
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