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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Been with my girlfriend for 4 years. After a major argument over the phone. Finished with her saying that she has had enough and then after the call she texted me to say "please don't come back here tonight". So for the last few days ive stayed at my parents. I sent her an email to apologise and that maybe I should give her some time alone and to think.Now 3 days later not heard anything from her. Now I don't know if I should contact her or leave her alone for awhile longer.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 September 2016):
 Three days of no contact does not sound good, I am wondering if this argument was a long time coming. In her head it might be the final straw. Or else she is really stubborn and does not want to contact you. Still if this was me and I had not heard in three days I would want to know what is happening. If you share a place go around and talk to her, or if you have stuff in her apartment ask can you come over to talk things through. Good Luck.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (4 September 2016):
 Leave her be, however... if you two SHARE a place... it's your home too. IF it's her apartment and you have stuff there call her and ask when you can come pick them up.
If it's a SHARED house (as in you rented it together) she can't really TELL you to stay away if your name in on the bills/lease.
I would consider the relationship to be over. 3 days and she is still not wanting to talk? Pretty much over.
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reader, N91 +, writes (4 September 2016):
 Leave her alone. The ball is in her court, you apologised and at the current time there's nothing else you can do.
If she wants to come back she will do, if she doesn't come back then you've hurt her badly. The worst thing to do right now though would be to continuously try to contact her.
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reader, NORA B +, writes (4 September 2016):
The phone is a dreadful place to have a major argument.However would you consider giving her a little extra space to think things out.Because we all get so up-set and say things we dont mean in the heat of the moment.Maybe then a text just to see what the situation is.A lot of understanding and talking needed on both sides when the time is right.Best luck NORA B.
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