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We are not dating, we have had sex, he sees other girls, am I being used?

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Question - (27 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *113YX33 writes:

Ok, so i am in love with this guy.. but we are not dating. I mean it seems like we are, and he tells me he loves me and everything! He just hasn't asked

me out, and i dont want to say anything about it because i dont want to seem "pushy". I just wish he knew what this is doing to me like that it bothers me this much. It seems like when were together, we are "together" but we say were just friends..

even though weve had sex, and hangout all the time. It seems like he's using me, but when i tell him that he tells me that he loves me and im the only

girl he talks to (which i know is a lie, but he hides the fact that he messes with other girls from me). He is just making my life so diffucult b/c i love him and i want to be with him. Gosh, i don't know what to do!! =( do you think hes really even into me ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

You are in the 26-29 age range? This sounds like an incredibly immature way to go on. If he doesn't want the relationship you do then move on. Yes I reckon he's used you and he's keeping his options open. Is that what you want?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008):

NO

if he really was into you he would stop messing with other girls and focus on being into you- asking you out and stuff

sorry to be harsh but you really shouldnt let yourself be used like that

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